Psychological
Benefits of Carrying Your Baby in an Over the Should Baby Holder1) A randomized
controlled test reported in Pediatrics showed that carrying babies in the manner
we promote reduces crying and fussiness 43% during the day and 51% at night. 2)
The less frustrated babies (and less frustrated parents) are less often the victims
of child abuse. 3) Some level of distress is inevitable and unavoidable
for the newborn, but the excessive stress found in infants prenatally exposed
to drugs places extra demands on their parents and other caregivers. The ability
to calm an infant is important for parent/infant attachment. A calmer, less irritable
infant feeds better, is more socially responsive, and more likely to develop better
parent/infant relationships. 4) A baby is unable to discharge its own energy
when it is laying on its back looking at the ceiling or the inside of a stroller
bonnet. When carried in an Over the Shoulder Baby HolderTM the baby shares in
your walking, talking, working, laughing, playing and is able to discharge that
energy in the most pleasurably way. 5) Studies with monkeys have shown
those deprived of touch have more difficulty coping with stress than those who
are held. Stress is known to cause diseases in humans. Carried babies see and
experience the world, they participate with their parent, develop their senses
faster, cry less, learn more, and thrive better because they are less bored and
more relaxed and secure. 6) Carrying these infants in a Baby Holder not
only reduces irritability but protects them from too much environmental stimuli.
According to Dr. Brazelton, each infant has an individual threshold for stimulus
which can be used for organization and learning. Stimulation which exceeds this
threshold overloads the infant and sets up defenses which are likely to be costly
to future development. (Nugent, 1985). 7) Clinical studies have shown frequent
carrying makes a baby less prone to undesirable addictions. Insecurity makes us
less able to cope with lifes trials appropriately and we substitute by developing
unhealthy addictions-everything from alcohol and drugs to over eating, over spending,
over working, etc. A baby in an Over the Shoulder Baby HolderTM feeling warmth,
pleasure, and a oneness with its parent has little reason to develop an addictive
personality. 8) A baby raised in an Over the Shoulder Baby Holder needs
to be carried less when she gets older than her counterpart who was reared in
mechanical devices. Sling babies are less clingy. This is because they are more
secure and self reliant and confident. They give their bearer cues that they want
to be set down to crawl off and explore and playrather than tugging on mommys
skirt, whining to be picked up. 9) As an intervention for prenatally drug
exposed infants, the Baby Holder helps minimize the negative effects of the drugs
on the infants system. For example, an infant prenatally exposed to cocaine
may experience a period of behavior disorganization after birth which manifests
itself as disturbed sleep and irritability (Chasnoff, Burns & Burns, 1987).
The cumulative forms of environmental modification provided by the Over the Shoulder
Baby Holder: rhythmic motion, reduced light, and curved, supported position seems
to have a rapid soothing and stabilizing effect on the baby and are more effective
than a single form (e.g., just motion). The infants sleep periods are extended,
and symptoms of irritability such as prolonged crying are reduced. (Dr. Linda
Perez) 10) Older brothers and sisters are more accepting and less jealous
of a new arrival when it is carried in an Over the Shoulder Baby HolderTM. This
is because mom is not tied down to the baby, and has her hands free
so she can give attention to the other children and the variety of things life
is made of. 11) Despite loud protests from our infants we have continued
to devise gadgets and systems for coping with the protests of our infants being
separated from us. The baby sling offers a simple but ultimately effective way
to begin to reconnect with our babies and nurture them in a way that is simple
but in the infants eyes critical to their survival and their development.
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