Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by things your kids do... or don’t do?
Do you end up feeling bad about how you react?
We've all been there!
Fortunately, there IS an easier way to respond so you don’t make it worse.
Would you like respect and cooperation to be your predominant way of interacting with your kids…
…and prevent the power struggles from happening in the first place?
Book your free session now with our expert parenting coach,
Valerie Bettencourt, CPC.
For a limited time, we are offering free consultation for parents.
A consultation is a 30 minute phone call for you to talk about your parenting challenges and discover how our program can help you achieve the results that you’re really wanting to see within your family in the shortest time possible.
If you can truly understand your child’s motivations and reasons behind their behavior, you can take the right steps to change the situation from lack of respect to cooperation.
If you can determine your specific triggers and why is it so difficult to manage your emotions and reactions when your kids push your buttons...
...you can make some shifts that will change everything!
Take some deep breaths.
Here's the deal:
You can read all the books and try all the tools…
But it's difficult to interact effectively and peacefully (consistently) with your children until you become aware of and clear the underlying issues and dynamics involved in your parent-child relationship.
Because what makes it so challenging is what’s going on in your head and heart when your child is acting out.
You Need Insight and Clear Solutions
You need insight into what's really happening with you when your child is strongly reacting so you’re able to respond effectively instead of creating more distress for the both of you.
Communication with kids is challenging! You need constructive solutions and to be able to navigate a conversation before an upset begins. You need to know how to instill peace and calm when your child is heading toward destruction.
What About When You're Tired and Stressed?
The question is, how do you maintain your calm and communicate effectively with your kids when you are tired, irritated and your stress levels are through the roof?
How do you show up as the parent you want to be – even when you’re ready to explode?
Something Needs to Change
Here's one thing I can guarantee you: It can't be accomplished by continuing to do what you've always done.
What you've done in the past may have worked sometimes temporarily to get your kids to cooperate. But that's all it will do. It won't create the everyday, ongoing level of respect and cooperation you know they are capable of.
You simply can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to get a different result.
What you really need to establish peace in your home is to take a clear, objective look at what’s really going on. And start exploring a new and better approach that will make everyone happier – especially yourself!
Which is precisely what our parent coaching program delivers.
At Healthy Child, we are coaching parents in a more effective and peaceful approach where everyone wins! Ready for a change? We are here to help you:
Overcome your current parenting challenges
Establish a deeper connection with your kids
Create a whole new level of cooperation within your family, and feel a lot better
Our deeply transformative parenting process will help you to have less stress and be a happier parent while creating a deeper connection with your children.
We provide the tools, education, and one-on-one personalized guidance to help you make profound shifts in your parenting and family relationships.
In addition to the tools you need to interact effectively with your kids – you will receive personal coaching to help you dig deeply into your specific situation, your feelings, your needs, and your children’s feelings and needs. You will be fully supported in uncovering and unraveling your specific dynamics so you can create the connection, respect and cooperation you desire.
Here’s the truth:
You can raise respectful, responsible, cooperative children who are self-confident, emotionally secure, and happy . . . and you don’t have to resort to yelling, punishing, threatening, or turning a blind eye to unacceptable behavior.
But I can say for sure that I don’t know anyone who can wade through the muck to get to the transformation that is necessary without help.
That’s why it’s essential to have a highly trained, strong yet compassionate coach to guide you through the process to get the results you need. To support you in actually taking care of yourself so that you can show up as the parent you want to be. To lead you into the conversations that really matter with your child, and to coach you in setting limits with your unique child that will truly stick without the pushback.
Our Certified Parent Coach:
Valerie Bettencourt CPC is our expert parent coach who will help you transform your relationship with your children.
Tapping into 30 years of research, education and personal growth, Valerie empowers you to restructure your parenting approach to the most effective possible so you can create lasting respect and cooperation with your kids.
She blends her knowledge, insight and effective tools to help you move through your worst challenges with your children.
Valerie holds confidentiality sacred and shares her parenting wisdom in a non-threatening way with zero judgment. With her genuinely loving spirit, she provides clarity, guidance and support that will help you to grow into your best version of yourself.
An empathic listener, Valerie is gifted with extraordinary intuition as well as the unique ability to hear you and understand what's spoken (and not spoken). With Valerie as your parenting coach, you will be able to understand your challenges in a different light. You will feel deeply encouraged and confident in creating the positive experience you've always wanted with your kids.
Valerie, you are an incredible person. Thank you so much. You have this amazing positive energy about you that has an effect even through a telephone line. I can only imagine being in your presence. I can't explain . . . but I feel rejuvenated and motivated. Such a breath of fresh air amidst all that has been going on. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙂
- Gulnur R, North Palm Beach, FL
Before I met Valerie, I was at my breaking point as a parent. Despite what I thought was a great start, as my boys got older, our relationship was deteriorating. By the time they were 5 and 6, I was no longer the mom I had envisioned. I remembered my own childhood at their age and I wanted more than anything for my boys to have better memories. Here I was, a mom with all this early childhood education background, and yet, despite my best efforts, I was simply not the mom I wanted to be. I kept falling into uncomfortable default parenting patterns and hearing myself say, “I swore I would never say that".
Valerie helped change my relationship with my children and, unexpectedly, with myself. When I first spoke with her, I had very minimal hopes. All I wanted was to get my kids to school in the morning without yelling. That was it. Little did I know that Valerie would not only transform my relationship with my children, but in the process, she helped to transform my relationship with myself. And I am forever grateful for her gentle guidance and open heart."
- Mary Ann Higgins
So grateful to have you as my coach. I really appreciate the safe space you've created for me to share with you. Our session was very empowering for me… For the first time EVER, when I asked them to brush their teeth before bed they did it the first time! 😉
When you are emotionally equipped to deal with the upsets, you will be able to effectively assist your child with his or her strong feelings to move through the tantrums without anger or harm to your child and your relationship.
When you set boundaries and limits in a way that is respectful to your child’s growth and well-being, then everyone wins. You’ll be amazed at how your child will respond to the rules and respect your requests.
It will seem like magic.
But it’s not. You have to do the work to get to this point.
When you take the time to do this work, your whole life will change for the better. The transformation from frustration and exhaustion to ease and happiness is profound. All of your relationships will improve and you can get on with your life feeling more empowered, free, relaxed, and happy.
In just 10 weeks, Healthy Child’s Parenting Program will help you to:
- Respond rather than react to your kids’ behavior.
- Break free of unconscious, limiting parenting patterns (that are causing you stress and disconnection with your child).
- Be a clear and confident parent with whom your child trusts and cooperates.
- Make sure that your child feels safe, secure, and cared for on a core level.
- Resolve issues so that everyone feels better.
- Learn how to set limits peacefully and gain cooperation without resorting to punishments and consequences.
- When you are triggered, shift to a more peaceful and effective state and become fully present with your child during the inevitable times of conflict and struggle.
- Transform anger into setting limits that peacefully stick.
- Create an instant connection with your child even during his worst tantrums.
- Replace consequences and punishments with clearly defined values and expectations that your children are deeply aligned with.
- Nurture a deep connection that allows your child to feel safe to communicate with you through any situation.
- Instill in your children life skills of empathy, respect, and cooperative, loving relationships.
- Help your child to grow up with lasting self-confidence, self-worth, self-control and intrinsic motivation.
- Raise emotionally intelligent children and learn how to have empowered conversations with your family.
- Learn the brain science behind your child’s behaviors.
- Create an unconditional loving bond with your children that will last a lifetime.
- Create the optimal environment for your child’s brain development.
- Feel fulfilled, energized and empowered with your partner and other adults in your life.
- Feel a deep sense of peace and confidence, knowing that you have done the work to bring your best efforts to your parenting.
What You Will Receive:
Live Private Coaching: Weekly phone meetings with Valerie to take you through your own personalized process to transform your current situation and meet your parenting goals.
Comprehensive Online Training Program: Lifetime access to the Ultimate Parent Success Class, including downloadable audios, PDFs, and meditations.